Confident. Grounded. Unstoppable.
I wasn’t born like this.
I chose to become the woman I am today.
Hola, I’m Tania, founder of Unstoppable Female.
I’ve always known there was more for me. I grew up in a home where money was always tight, never quite belonged anywhere, and at 19 I left Spain for Germany with 50 euros in my pocket, because staying felt more dangerous than leaving.
I was given bad cards. I chose to play anyway. I couldn’t choose where I started, but I could choose what I did with it. So I chose to learn: about myself, about the patterns holding me back, and about people who’d come from nothing and still built lives they loved. I wanted to understand what it really takes for women like me, who don’t start with connections, money, or an easy path, to build something different.
But knowing there’s more and trusting yourself enough to go after it are two very different things. For years, I flipped a coin to make decisions, big ones and small ones, because I didn’t trust myself to choose.
This is the story of how that changed. Not in one brave moment, and not in a straight line.
I stopped waiting to feel ready
In 2020, I was working as a team leader in a restaurant in Germany. I’d had my life coaching and NLP certifications for three years, and I still didn’t feel capable of doing the one thing I’d wanted to do for so long. I knew enough. I just didn’t believe I could make it work.
So I hired a coach, made the decision, and got to work. I spent two months building everything from scratch: my website, my sales page, my method, while learning how online coaching actually worked. Six weeks after I started posting about my business, I had my first client.
I hadn’t stopped doubting myself. I’d just stopped letting doubt make my decisions.
When life took me somewhere else
In the middle of 2021, my relationship ended, the world was in lockdown, and someone I love went through a crisis that shook me to my core. Everything happened at once, and I couldn’t hold it anymore. I stepped away from my business.
What followed was a long, difficult period of recovery. I fell into a deep depression. I did a lot of therapy, and it helped me, but somewhere along the way, I lost my spark. I became confused about who I was and what I wanted. I even started to believe my ambition was something that needed fixing.
If you’ve ever been made to feel that wanting more is a problem, I know that feeling from the inside.
Coming back wasn’t a straight line either
In February 2023, I moved to Salzburg for love. That June, I started an online jewelry store, which I still run today. In November, I started showing up for Unstoppable Female again.
Then, in January 2024, that relationship ended too. Suddenly, I was in a country where I knew no one, with my savings invested in building my jewelry business. By February, I had a new job and a new apartment, and I was finding my footing again while rebuilding my savings from zero.
I stepped back from coaching again. I kept coming back when I could, but I wasn’t as consistent as I wanted to be. I was building in the real world, and I didn’t feel like the living proof of my own work. That has always mattered to me enormously.
For a long time, I believed integrity meant I couldn’t fully show up until every part of my life reflected what I taught. Sometimes that belief held me back. I still believe in living what you teach. But I’ve learned that living the work doesn’t mean having a life where nothing goes wrong. It means being honest about where you are, taking care of what needs you, and finding your way back.
Building a life I could stand on
I worked a lot, saved a lot, and in January 2025, I applied for a General Manager position. After several rounds of interviews, I got the yes in February.
I was supposed to start in March. But that same February, I was diagnosed with an illness I didn’t even know existed. It kept me in bed for almost a month, and it pulled me back into depression. I barely ate. I cried every day. I didn’t leave my home.
The job I had worked so hard for was finally within reach, and I could barely get out of bed.
So I started in April instead. Not healed, and not ready. I still cried a lot that first month at work, and honestly, for most of that year.
My training period was cut short because they needed help fast. I took over one of the company’s locations, with negative financial results and an unstable team, and led more than 30 people in my third language. I turned the numbers positive, built a stable team, and earned every single quarterly bonus.
And I did it as an introvert who felt sick before every monthly meeting with her bosses, even when her results were good, in the same year I was still finding my way out of depression.
I’ll be honest with you: a role like that doesn’t come with balance or a soft life. You’re always working, even when you’re off. Even with a good, stable team, there’s always something happening, and the responsibility follows you home. I’m proud of what I achieved, and I know what it cost. Both things can be true.
I hadn’t become someone else. I’d learned how to use more of what was already in me. And it gave me a kind of confidence I value more than anything: confidence grounded in what I know I can do, not in what I hope will happen.
That April brought something else I hadn’t planned for. At work, I met my partner. We saw each other every day during our trainee period, and in our very first week, I told him about my illness. He chose to be there for me from the beginning.
Letting him in was one of the hardest things I’ve ever done. I was used to holding everything on my own, and being vulnerable felt riskier than taking over a struggling team. But I let him in, slowly, and together we built something beautiful and strong.
Life has a sense of humor like that. The month I spent in bed was followed by the job I had worked for, and the person I’m building my life with.
The vision board, made real
In 2021, I put “live in the mountains” on my vision board. Today, I live in the Austrian Alps.
But that was never the only thing I wanted. Growing up, security wasn’t something I could take for granted. Debt was the norm, and sometimes there was no money at all. So more than anything, I wanted to build a life where I never had to live with that uncertainty again. I wanted financial stability, a career I could be proud of in the real world, a business of my own, a healthy body, a relationship that felt right, and the freedom to enjoy the life I was working so hard to build. I wanted to trust myself, feel at home in who I was, and know I could rely on myself to handle whatever life brought my way.
Looking at my life today, I’m proud of how much of that I’ve built. I have a career that challenged me and showed me what I’m capable of. I have my own business. I live in the mountains I once put on a vision board. I have a relationship and a future I’m excited about, and the habits, self-trust and inner freedom that once felt impossibly far away.
I wanted all of it so badly. But if I’m honest, for a long time I didn’t really believe it was possible for someone like me. It felt like the kind of life that belonged to other people.
So living it now, a life I genuinely love, isn’t just a nice outcome. It’s a dream come true. And not every dream is real yet. I still dream big. I just don’t doubt anymore that they can come true.
None of it happened in a straight line. There were relationships that ended, plans that fell apart, periods when I had to step back and rebuild, and moments when the life I was working toward looked nothing like the one in front of me. But year after year, setback after setback, I kept giving myself another chance. I kept learning, making changes, and finding a way forward.
And I’m grateful to the woman who kept doing that. Not because she always knew what to do, or because she never struggled, but because she refused to let where she started decide where she could end up.
The life I have today isn’t something I stumbled into or wished into existence. I built it, one decision at a time. And I trust myself to keep building.
What those years taught me
I learned that a hard chapter can change your direction without deciding the rest of your life. Sometimes you need to recover. Sometimes you need to start again. And sometimes you need to build something completely different from what you first imagined.
I learned that I can lose my direction without losing myself.
And I learned that a life built only online isn’t a foundation. If the internet disappeared tomorrow, I could go back to my life in the real world and still feel happy, successful, and proud of who I am. So today I build from a place of choice, not desperation. My work is part of a beautiful life, not the only thing that makes my life feel worthwhile.
And I’m still building
Today, I’m building a family on my own timeline. I trusted myself, I fell, I took the time I needed, I learned, and I kept going. I’m deeply proud of the woman I’ve become, of what I’ve built, and of everything I know I’m still capable of.
I don’t need to reach every goal before I’m allowed to be proud of my life. I can be content and ambitious. Grounded and still growing.
That’s what unstoppable means to me. Not that nothing knocks you down, but that nothing gets the final say over who you become.
Maybe you’re ready to come back, too
Maybe there’s something you’ve wanted for a long time and never fully given yourself a chance to go after. Maybe you started once and stopped. Maybe life got complicated, or you spent so long doing what needed to be done that you lost sight of what you wanted for yourself.
You don’t have to pretend those years didn’t happen. You don’t have to punish yourself for the time that passed. And you don’t have to become a completely different woman before you begin again. You can start with the woman you are today, with everything you’ve learned and everything you’re still capable of.
That’s why I created Unstoppable Female. This work is about understanding who you are beneath the expectations, old beliefs, and patterns you’ve learned to live by. It’s about building a relationship with yourself that allows you to trust your own judgment, make decisions that reflect what truly matters to you, and stop letting the same patterns dictate what you believe is possible.
It’s about learning how your mind works, getting clear on what you actually want, and developing the beliefs, habits, and skills that help you move toward it. Not by wishing harder or forcing yourself to become someone you’re not, but by doing the internal work and taking the practical steps that turn your ambitions into reality.
Because the goal isn’t simply to feel more confident or to have someone remind you of your potential. It’s to know yourself deeply enough to trust yourself, to have the courage to challenge what no longer serves you, and to become the woman who can build a life she genuinely wants to live.
The deeper work is internal. The result is external.
And the life you build from there is yours. If you’re ready to start, I’d love to help you build it.
A few things you might not guess about me
I’m 73% introverted. (Yes, really.)
I love video games, and my gaming PC is one of my favorite things I own.
I love working out, but I HATE cardio, unless it’s rhythmic spinning, then I’m obsessed!
I speak Spanish, English, and German.
I’ve lived in four countries and moved more than 40 times. Stability is something I always wanted, and something I finally have.
